He likes me to do these

I really have no idea about rebirth. No, I am not sceptical about it rather if it is there then I would definitely want to come back. What I mean is I think I really want to enjoy the present when I exist. Few things are there I would like to have repeatedly and there are few things I wish shall be no longer there when I will come back! And I would be happy if I could make my partner happy!

It’s not hard to believe that every man has a bedroom wishlist (since they spend most of their time thinking about sex!). So if your guy has not spelled it out for you already, here are five types of carnal pleasures he is secretly longing for.

An out of the blue nookie!

Surprise him with a ‘naughty’ attack as soon as he comes out of the shower. Or ask him to pull over in a deserted lane when he’s driving you home… the keyword is ‘catching him off guard’ for a quickie. Men love spontaneity when it comes to sex.

Turn the video on

Men are fascinated by visuals. Period. That’s probably why they love Baywatch or FTV! Now he may have not presented the idea to you because of fear of getting rejected (or god forbid you start thinking of him as a perv!), but you can be sure it’s one of his fantasies. So if you’re really into him and if you think he is for keeps, then blow his mind by suggesting the idea before he does!

Turn yourself on!

Yes, you read it right. For a guy to have an eyeful of the woman he loves, turning herself on for him, is a libido booster! Now of course he wants to be the one to pleasure you; but it’s a big turn on for him to see you pleasuring yourself too! Titillation, that’s what he is craving.

All dolled up

We’re talking about lacy lingerie. A woman in her bare essentials is a big arousal for a man. So the next time you go shopping, buy some sexy lingerie – red, purple, the brighter the better! And don’t forget to throw in a red lipstick, a kohl liner and handcuffs while you’re at it!

He wants to sit and enjoy

No, we don’t mean he wants to sit on the couch, watch TV and enjoy. We mean he wants to sit on the couch, watch TV and enjoy while you’re pleasuring him. We are not saying he craves this all the time; but yes once in while he would love to do nothing and let you just go to work... Wink!

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Basic Instinct

Remember Basic Instinct? The irresistible Sharon Stone perhaps defined the sexuality of modern woman "I don't set the rule, I go with the flow!" Yeah,follow your own 'Basic Instinct' beyond 'set rule' and don't confine it upon the 7feet X 7feet box every night. The monotonous hue of regular sex at the constant place take away much needed enjoyment and become just another household chore. Try the following instead and I am sure you have more fantastic ideas than me, so don't forget to share with us here!

Bake some romance: On the weekend, how about teaming up to bake a cake together? While you're at it, you can put the chocolate and caramel to some naughty use too!

Private PDA: When you are in the middle of a dinner party with friends, or in the theatre, a little bit of PDA can go a long way! Play footsie, or gently rub your palm near his crotch. It’s sure to turn him on.

Naughty Notes: Leave him naughty little love notes on his lunch package, in the car, on his laptop, etc. Make sure it’s in a fail-proof area because you definitely don’t want him to be embarrassed in front of his colleagues, do you? Even though it’s a tried and tested idea, the uniqueness of it lies in the creativity behind your mischievous thoughts! And because he's been anticipating the night all day, you can be sure to have a great time when he comes home!

The old school moves: While watching TV or just lying in the couch together, play with his hair, nuzzle up to his neck, let him use your lap as a pillow, cuddle... bring out all the old school moves you can! More than sexy, it’s passionate and he’ll definitely love you more. But make sure that you don’t go too overboard with this or it could just as well turn out to be annoying!

Picture perfect: If you are sure that he’s “the one” for keeps and to be trusted, you can send him pictures of the treat that awaits him in the night. Team it up with a naughty quote and it’s bound to make him crave for the real thing!

Let him ask: Why restrict your sexiness to the bedroom alone, right? Take your time then bring your lips nearer to his and let him know that you can be as wild and raging even outside the bedroom!

Let spontaneity rule: On the floor, in the car, under the shower, just be spontaneous and wild! Men find it incredibly sexy when women initiate sex. And if it’s in a spot which is both bold yet cozy, and away from prying eyes, you know he’s never going to forget this one!


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Why We Need to Understand Men's Psycology

The short purple dress or the classy black kurta? The-tried-and tested nude make-up or the sexy red pout? And should you go dutch or let him pay the bill? While there’s plenty out there telling us what women want, what men want is a subject still as mysterious as why all shades of blue appeal equally to most men. We talk to a few men and tell you what they really like and what puts them off about women. 

He doesn’t want a doormat  
It was a pleasant surprise to us and it sure will be to you as well. Most men we spoke to like women who have a mind of their own and who think of their lives as theirs and not an extension on their man’s.  “I like women who are goal and career-oriented,” says a young achiever, 29. “I like them to be rebellious when it comes to the dominant male attitude. The fact that they are financially independent adds that spark to their personality.” Another successful man in his early thirties, agrees. “Women who are well informed, intelligent and know what they are talking are a huge turn-on.” 

He notices your pedicureThis one is for all the investment you make at the beauty parlour. “I don’t mind a major part of our family income going to parlours. I like women to look well-groomed,” says young hotel management graduate. And by groomed, we are not talking made up; it’s the basics. “Women’s hands and feet are a turn-on,” says a HRD professional, 36. “I’m not saying they should always wear nail paint and heels, but manicured hands, pedicured feet and smooth hands and legs definitely look groomed.”  

He hates the make-up
It is interesting to see the world from a man’s perspective at times. You spend hours in front of the mirror dressing up, putting on your make-up only to realise that he liked you better before. A diamond merchant of 28, likes his diamonds bright and sparkling, but prefers women who are subtle. “Who needs so much make-up? It’s such a turn off.” Percussionist Jay, 23, too prefers the natural look. “I like innocent faces. That’s possible only with minimal or no make-up,” he says. 

He doesn’t care for skin show
Don’t have the legs to carry off that short skirt? Then don’t wear it. And it doesn’t help either when you see other women in their plunging necklines. Don’t be jealous because men don’t seem to like them either. A young student, 21,  explained, “Women with a classy sense of dressing are so much better.” An MBA student, echoes the same thought. “Women with revealing clothes look like they are making up for something else they might not possess,” he says. “Your confidence should come through great body language and not flirtatious behaviour and revealing clothes.”

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How Kiss affects Relation?

You must remember this: A kiss isn't just a kiss. If it's bad, it can actually kill a budding relationship, a new survey says. Some 59% of men and 66% of women said they've had the hots for someone—until that first, deadly kiss, CNN reports. "I knew this girl I'll call Big Tongue," recalls one luckless dater. "She was very forceful with it, and I started choking."

"At the moment of the kiss, there's a very complicated exchange of information" that can indicate compatibility, says a study co-author. But while kisses can be bad for myriad reasons, they all "trigger the gag reflex," says the author of The Art of Kissing, who suggests the kissing-impaired can improve by varying their "speed, intensity, and style."

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Pamper your Date - make your Home

Your home says a lot about you. It’s a reflection of your style, personality and lifestyle. And so you want to make sure it's giving the right impression to your date. From cleaning, fixing, furnishing, and accessorizing, here are few simple home-decor tips to make sure your apartment is woman-friendly. Start taking home-court advantage.

Prioritize

If your date is coming over in a few hours, it doesn’t leave you much time to properly clean and reorganize your entire place. Instead, pick the areas that will be most seen and used. Spend your time on the entryway, kitchen, living room, bathrooms, and bedroom.

De-Clutter

Nothing makes a house look messier than clutter. Grab an empty box, go around to your main areas and start putting away any unnecessary items. Get a few basic cleaning supplies and wipe down your countertops, tabletops and bathroom fixtures. Make sure your laundry is put away and your linens are fresh. Finish off by doing a lap with the vacuum or mop.

Fix It

You know that light bulb that burnt out last year? It’s time to replace it. Just like your car, your place needs to be regularly maintained. Take a walk around your house and do all the simple repairs that you’ve been putting off. If you don’t know how to change that leaking faucet or fix that hole in your wall, check out YouTube for easy DIY instructions.   

Stock Up

Make sure you have all the essentials on-hand. If you don’t know your date’s favorite food or drink, have a variety. Pick up an assortment of drinks (soda, water, wine) and snacks (crackers, cheese, chips, fruit, vegetables). In the bathroom, ensure there is extra toilet paper, tissues, soap, air freshener, and hand towels.

Furnish It

You don’t have to go out and buy all new furniture, but it’s important to make sure your space is fully furnished. Your living room should have a sofa, two end tables, a coffee table, media unit, and two occasional chairs (if there’s room). Your bedroom should have a bed with a headboard, two nightstands and a dresser. The rooms should feel full, but not cluttered or cramped.

Accessorize

Accessories add warmth, color, texture, pattern, and coziness to a space. Even though your place is now fully furnished, these small items make the space feel lived-in and complete. Place a wooden tray with magazines and two hurricane candle holders on your coffee table, throw color-coordinated toss cushions for your sofa and purchase an area rug to help define the space. Style your bedroom with a pair of lamps and a few of your favorite hardcover books on the nightstands.

Keep Him Groomed

Get your mind out of the gutter. I know you love your pet more than anything, but unless you know your date is an animal lover, try to keep him out of the way. Nonetheless, make sure your animal is properly groomed, trained and well-kept. Keep an eye on your pet to make sure he doesn't annoy, bother or invade your date’s personal space. A lint brush is always good to have on hand. 

Be Prepared

Things don’t always go as planned. Maybe you were supposed to have a night on the town but a thunderstorm came in. Whatever it is, make sure you have a back-up plan in case you two are spending the night in. Add a few romantic comedies to your DVD collection, have some classic board games available or pull out that old box of cake mix and do some baking. These simple activities will make her feel comfortable and at home.

Add A Touch Of Luxury

If your date sleeps over, make her feel like she checked in to a five-star hotel. Make your bed up with four sleeping pillows, two firm and two soft. For that hotel crispness, use white cotton or linen sheets that are starched and ironed. Stock the bathroom with new toothbrushes, toothpaste, mouthwash, floss, and clean towels (bath, face and hand). To add a touch of luxury, have a small basket with items that she wouldn’t find at home: lotions, small bottle of perfume, small make-up kit, razors, and a lush robe. Before going to sleep, leave a dim light on in case she needs to get up in the middle of the night. 

Set The Mood

Your place is now clean, furnished, styled and stocked. Before she comes over, you need to set the mood. Lighting can make the biggest impact. Dim your main lights and light a few candles around the house. For a little background music, make a playlist of soft, mellow, classic tunes, and then you're set to go.

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