Why We Need to Understand Men's Psycology

The short purple dress or the classy black kurta? The-tried-and tested nude make-up or the sexy red pout? And should you go dutch or let him pay the bill? While there’s plenty out there telling us what women want, what men want is a subject still as mysterious as why all shades of blue appeal equally to most men. We talk to a few men and tell you what they really like and what puts them off about women. 

He doesn’t want a doormat  
It was a pleasant surprise to us and it sure will be to you as well. Most men we spoke to like women who have a mind of their own and who think of their lives as theirs and not an extension on their man’s.  “I like women who are goal and career-oriented,” says a young achiever, 29. “I like them to be rebellious when it comes to the dominant male attitude. The fact that they are financially independent adds that spark to their personality.” Another successful man in his early thirties, agrees. “Women who are well informed, intelligent and know what they are talking are a huge turn-on.” 

He notices your pedicureThis one is for all the investment you make at the beauty parlour. “I don’t mind a major part of our family income going to parlours. I like women to look well-groomed,” says young hotel management graduate. And by groomed, we are not talking made up; it’s the basics. “Women’s hands and feet are a turn-on,” says a HRD professional, 36. “I’m not saying they should always wear nail paint and heels, but manicured hands, pedicured feet and smooth hands and legs definitely look groomed.”  

He hates the make-up
It is interesting to see the world from a man’s perspective at times. You spend hours in front of the mirror dressing up, putting on your make-up only to realise that he liked you better before. A diamond merchant of 28, likes his diamonds bright and sparkling, but prefers women who are subtle. “Who needs so much make-up? It’s such a turn off.” Percussionist Jay, 23, too prefers the natural look. “I like innocent faces. That’s possible only with minimal or no make-up,” he says. 

He doesn’t care for skin show
Don’t have the legs to carry off that short skirt? Then don’t wear it. And it doesn’t help either when you see other women in their plunging necklines. Don’t be jealous because men don’t seem to like them either. A young student, 21,  explained, “Women with a classy sense of dressing are so much better.” An MBA student, echoes the same thought. “Women with revealing clothes look like they are making up for something else they might not possess,” he says. “Your confidence should come through great body language and not flirtatious behaviour and revealing clothes.”

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Guys! Please behave...well, in Elevator!

So you’d think that using an elevator is pretty simple, right? Well, not for everyone. As inane as this might sound, there really are some people who need a crash course in elevator etiquette and if by chance you are guilty of any, I strongly suggest you mend your ways.

Let’s not forget those irksome children who think any button they see is to be fiddled around with? They randomly run their itchy fingers along all the elevator buttons forcing the doors open at every floor for absolutely no reason. This breed is often accompanied by maids who couldn’t care less. Talk about exasperating!

Once the elevator leaves a certain floor, it’s not like it’s gone forever. It will be back. But apparently, not everyone knows that. That’s why when the elevator has reached its maximum capacity (usually around 6 pm), there will always be those people who insist on getting on and smashing everyone else, making us feel like sardines in a can!

Office elevators with mirrors are great for checking your appearance before stepping in for a meeting or interview. What is not so great is people using them to check whether they’ve got food stuck in their teeth, apply make up or test their artificial smiles and poses. There are washrooms for that, you know. But then again, it can actually be quite amusing.

I think it’s a great gesture to hold the door open for someone who is walking towards the elevator. Insisting on keeping the doors open for over 2 minutes while everyone in the elevator is held up is just stupid! If you are so desperate to ride the elevator with your friend, I suggest you wait outside the elevator till he/ she arrives. Any thoughts?

You’ll watch them enter the elevator sneezing, sniffling and even rubbing their noses and then they go right ahead and press the elevator buttons. Have you ever heard of using a tissue?

In really tall buildings, it’s bad enough that the elevator takes so long to reach my floor. But what really sucks is when it does arrive, I’m approaching the doors and no one in the elevator will bother to hold the “Open Door” button! In fact, they’ll stare right back at me with this “O, you poor thing” expression. Would it really hurt so much if you waited two seconds longer?

It’s usually the biggest guy in the elevator that will take the most inconvenient spot (for everyone else I mean). He’ll stand right at the entrance of the elevator even though he plans to get off last. What’s worse, he’ll move just an inch, every time the elevator doors open forcing me and everyone else in the elevator to squeeze our way in and out. Something tells me he’s doing it on purpose.

I’ve never quite understood why some people barge into elevators like they own them without any consideration for those who want to get off. It’s also the same lot that always want to step out first! Has no one told them these aren’t the local trains?

So you’ve probably seen this in the movies: Guy farts. People hold their noses disgusted. Guy looks around nonchalantly. Well, the scenario is just a wee bit different in elevators especially around lunch hour. Here’s how it goes: Guy burps loud and unabashedly. Everyone knows who it is. Guy feels no awkwardness whatsoever. I usually follow this up with a loud ‘Eeeewww!’

Then there are people who enter the elevator while talking on their cell phones. I have no problem with that. The problem arises when they realise that their phones are losing reception and they start to yell on the top of their lungs in the hope that the other person will hear them. It’s moments like these I wish my penetrating glare would somehow zap them!


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Wow! I got Shaved

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Tip #1: If you have rashes or itchiness on your pubic area

If you have rashes or itchiness on your pubic area then it is not advisable to shave the pubic hair off as this will only aggravate the problem. It will help if you will wait for a week until the rashes are gone before you start shaving off your pubic area.

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Tip #2 If you have thick or long pubic hair :

If you have thick or long pubic hair then it will help a lot to get a cleaner and closer shave if you will cut off the hair first before you start shaving them off. This is an effective way of shaving thick and long pubic area without the hassle o dark shadows and ingrown.

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Tip #3: It is important that you wash the pubic area

It is important that you wash the pubic area using a gentle cleanser in order to get rid of the dirt and urine from the pubic area that might cause skin reactions while shaving the pubic hair. It is important that you use a mild cleanser and cold water at all times. Before you start on this hair removal method it is important that you choose the right kind of shaving cream or lotion in order to prevent itchiness and even redness and other skin reactions.
Make sure to apply a liberal amount on the pubic area in order to fully get the results you desire. If you have no idea which one to use then you’d better do a little research online in order to get the right kind and brand of shaving cream or lotion.

There are many kinds and brands of shaving creams and lotions which you can easily obtain from both offline and online markets. If you have sensitive skin then make sure to use the hypoallergenic one. It is important that you apply a liberal amount of this product on your pubic area then slowly start shaving off the pubic hair. However if the pubic hair are long and thick then it will help a lot if you will use a scissor first to cut some of the hair before
you start shaving off. This way you will get a cleaner and closer shave result.

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Tip#4:Before you shave, run lukewarm water

Before you shave, run lukewarm water on the place or part of the skin that you would like to shave. Doing so will lessen the hair roughness so it will be a lot simpler to shave, this will result in a much softer outcome. In addition to this why not shave at nighttime. It is small recognized information that physically fluids are not as much of packed approximately in the hair roots during nighttime.

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Tip #5: There are quite a few of various kinds of shaving sets

There are quite a few of various kinds of shaving sets, creams and balms that you can utilize. Rather than pay money for the most luxurious creation you would be immediately additionally going for a normal set or balm. It’s how you make use of the shaving cream that tally!

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Tip #6: Lightly rub down the lotion or cream into the part to be shaved for a time

Lightly rub down the lotion or cream into the part to be shaved for a time. This invigorating act will aid raise the hairs so that the shaver can more with no trouble slice the hair close to the skins surface providing a much softer trim.

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Tip #7 :Make sure that you shave the hair from your bikini line

Make sure that you shave the hair from your bikini line carefully because if you will not be careful and you will leave some ingrown hairs on your pubic area then it is most likely that you will develop rashes and skin chaps.

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Tip #8: It is important that you shave off your bikini line once a month.

It is important that you shave off your bikini line once a month. Your armpit twice a week and so as the hairs on your leg should be shaves two times every week. However this still depends on how thick and how fast your hair grows.

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Tip#9:Always choose the best razor and shaving cream

Always choose the best razor and shaving cream. If you have no idea which one to choose then you can always go to the net for further assistance on this matter. There are tons of products and even how tos articles and even videos that can help you gather all the necessary information and details that will help you choose the best product.

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Tip #10: Always exfoliate your skin.

Always exfoliate your skin. This is very helpful in removing dead skin cells and even preventing bumps and ingrown hairs. It will help if you will exfoliate your skin two days before you start shaving the hair off. This way you will be able to take away any bacterial formation on the skin that just might cause any skin irritations such as redness, bumps and even blemishes.

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Tip #11: Always use mild cleanser when washing your bikini

line.

Always use mild cleanser when washing your bikini line. It is important that you clean your pubic area at all times with a gentle and fragrance free cleanser so as to prevent any skin infection.

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Don't Ignore your Sex Lessons

I am 22 years old and consider myself to be pretty sexy. I tend to be attracted to older men. And still, I find myself hooking up with men who have absolutely no clue what they are doing in bed. I don’t mean little things, like being unable to unzip my dress with one hand. Those little things I can overlook. What I can’t overlook is a Law Student’s inability to last longer than 3 minutes.

What’s the deal? Did these boys learn nothing from sex-ed? And what about common sense? I mean, come on, who ever thought pushing a girl’s head towards your nether regions was a good form of foreplay. Apparently I am not the only one feeling this way. I don’t know who this person is, but they provide quite a thorough and honest list of everything men do wrong in the bedroom. Not only is the list complete, but it can be easily printed and handed out to any potential suitor. Score!

#1 – NOT KISSING FIRST: Avoiding her lips and diving straight for the erogenous zones makes her feel like you’re paying by the hour and trying to get your money’s worth by cutting out nonessentials. A proper passionate kiss is the ultimate form of foreplay.

#2 – BLOWING TOO HARD IN HER EAR: Admit it, some kid at school told you girls love this. Well, there’s a difference between being erotic and blowing as if you’re trying to extinguish the candles on your 50th birthday cake. That hurts.

#3 – NOT SHAVING: You often forget you have a porcupine strapped to your chin which you rake repeatedly across your partner’s face and thighs. When she turns her head from side to side, it’s not passion, it’s avoidance.

#4 – SQUEEZING HER BREAST: Most men act like a housewife testing a melon for ripeness when they get their hand on a pair. Stroke, caress, and smooth them.

#5 – BITING HER NIPPLES: Why do men fasten onto a woman’s nipples, then clamp down like they’re trying to deflate her body via her breasts? Nipples are highly sensitive. They can’t stand up to chewing. Lick and suck them gently. Flicking your tongue across them is good. Pretending they’re a dogie toy isn’t.

#6 – TWIDDLING HER NIPPLES: Stop doing that thing where you twiddle the nipples between finger and thumb like you’re trying to find a radio station in a hilly area. Focus on the whole breasts, not just the exclamation points.

#7 – IGNORING THE OTHER PARTS OF HER BODY: A woman is not a highway with just three turnoffs: Breastville East and West, and the Midtown Tunnel. There are vast areas of her body which you’ve ignored far too often as you go bombing straight into downtown Vagina. So start paying them some attention.

#8 – GETTING THE HAND TRAPPED: Poor manual dexterity in the underskirt region can result in tangled fingers and underpants. If you’re going to be that aggressive, just ask her to take the damn things off.

#9 – LEAVING HER A LITTLE PRESENT: Condom disposal is the man’s responsibility. You wore it, you store it.

#10 – ATTACKING THE CLITORIS: Direct pressure is very unpleasant, so gently rotate your fingers along side of the clitoris.

#11 – STOPPING FOR A BREAK: Women, unlike men, don’t pick up where they left off. If you stop, they plummet back to square one very fast. If you can tell she’s not there, keep going at all costs, numb jaw or not.

#12 – UNDRESSING HER AWKWARDLY: Women hate looking stupid, but stupid she will look when naked at the waist with a sweater stuck over her head. Unwrap her like an elegant present, not a kid’s toy.

#13 – GIVING HER A WEDGIE DURING FOREPLAY: Stroking her gently through her panties can be very sexy. Pulling the material up between her thighs and yanking it back and forth is not.

#14 – BEING OBSESSED WITH THE VAGINA: Although most men can find the clitoris without maps, they still believe that the vagina is where it’s all at. No sooner is your hand down there than you’re trying to stuff stolen banknotes up a chimney. This is okay in principle, but if you’re not careful, it can hurt – so don’t get carried away. It’s best to pay more attention to her clitoris and the exterior of her vagina at first, then gently slip a finger inside her and see if she likes it.

# 15 – MASSAGING TOO ROUGHLY: You’re attempting to give her a sensual, relaxing massage to get her in the mood. Hands and fingertips are okay; elbows and knees are not.

#16 – UNDRESSING PREMATURELY: Don’t force the issue by stripping before she’s at least made some move toward getting your stuff off, even if it’s just undoing a couple of buttons.

#17 – TAKING YOUR PANTS OFF FIRST: A man in socks and underpants is a at his worst. Lose the socks fist.

#18 – GOING TOO FAST: When you get to the penis-in-vagina situation, the worst thing you can do is pump away like an industrial power tool – she’ll soon feel like an assembly-line worker made obsolete by your technology. Build up slowly, with clean, straight, regular thrusts.

#19 – GOING TOO HARD: If you bash your great triangular hip bones into her thigh or stomach, the pain is equal to two weeks of horseback riding concentrated into a few seconds.

#20 – COMING TOO SOON: Every man’s fear. With reason. If you shoot before you see the whites of her eyes, make sure you have a backup plan to ensure her pleasure too.


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